Post-Divorce Healing and Rediscovering Your SELF

with Dr. Deb Hecker Ph.D.


Hi, I’m Dr. Deb Hecker 

So, the marriage didn’t work out. 

It’s time to start enjoying life again.  Right? 

Hands down, the #1 question I am asked by my divorcing clients is “Will I ever feel happy again?” 

The simple answer is “Of course, you absolutely can move beyond the agony of a broken heart and a failed marriage.” 

How do I know?  I went through it, and with determination I survived, and then I thrived.



In the 4 part video series I have created for you, Post-Divorce Healing and Rediscovering Your SELF, I am going to take you on a journey that will give you crystal clear insight into: 

  • Why your marriage didn’t work out.
  • How to begin developing a non-partnered identity.
  • The steps to “divorce-proof” your future relationships


In Video 1, we will take a look at identity formation in childhood.  Understanding this developmental phase is crucial.  You may be surprised to learn that developing an identity as a non-partnered person builds upon and mirrors identity formation in infancy and childhood.  Establishing a stronger, more independent Self is a primary focus of your healing.


In Video 2, I will show you how your early childhood development may have hindered you in developing adult intimacy and precisely how you relived that in your relationship.


Next, in Video 3, we will explore those parallels and I will describe the various dynamics and intimacy issues that exist between two people who have entered a marriage with unresolved issues.


Looking ahead to Video 4, we will explore my relationship model Yours, Mine, Ours: Relationships Done Right.  This unique model will give you the exact steps to create a successful long-lasting intimacy.

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